Priorities...by me

We should always be sharing reasons about why we live, what we want from life and what we want from others. I don't see why we should be polite all the time - I'd rather get to the point..and my point is to merge with someone through love and fun without condition - isn't love supposed to be unconditional?

Why is that what we want so much from other, we are most afraid of sharing? Where's the gain in avoiding pain?

So we deal with sensitive stuff with others through humour and games--and we become surprised that they're not much different from us! - and so we start to think...

Why search for love and answers if we think it's futile or we'll be scared if we actually get what we want?

Anyway, why take a chance on your most powerful desires being returned if it could turn to most your powerful disappointments - and pain?
why do I love anyway whense sense should've made me insensitive - to protect me from pain?

ENOUGH questions! I am what I am and will be me and have unlimited trust in my beliefs instead of listening to someone's fears - not becausing I'm making a point, but proving that I AM that point and therefore merged with its beauty even if it's not immediately returned.

The possibility of unconditional love is still far greater than the complaints and the second-best many people seem to settle for.

The fountain of real love - even imagined - is more profound than the antics of those who pretend to know stuff but never actually believe in true love.

Love is EVERYWHERE - just see it (it's right in front of your nose)!

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It is important that we take ourselves seriously. Many people aren't confident enough in their resolutions to see them through....And when they ask their friends (who aren't going through the same soul searching), they often don't get the support they need because those friends are not in the same head space as they are. Often these 'friends' will offer a way out of concentrating on personal goals by taking you for a drink or simply telling you that you are thinking too much.

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Something is happening to the traditional British pub - it's fast becoming a thing of the past. When this generation raises their children and tells them fondly about the old days of the local family pub around which the neighbourhood grew and where their parents met, they'll probably have to show it them with photo instead of a visit. Say what you want about Britain, but one of the great traditions has always been the local pub.

Typically the local was a 'home away from home' which literally extended the household feeling outside your door into your neighbourhood. Yes, the prices were higher than to drink at home, but nothing beats the idea of friend's and their families all gathering together for a sporting event or a Sunday roast. It was usually run by a family who lived upstairs and came down to open and sometimes had a lock-in after it closed. All kinds of events were celebrated there and sometime when a regular had too much or started trouble, they would be escorted out but welcome back another day because all friends and families have a falling out or a bad moment once in a while and are forgiven.

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Previously we spoke about a sprinkling of important issues, that are part of our natural self-examination. I touched lightly on many important questions we might ask ourselves during important times in our life. I purposely brought up many deep questions without delving deeper for two reasons.

Firstly to illustrate how easily we can confuse ourselves with too many considerations. Secondly because I'm not here to give you answers, but to help you find them for yourself and grow as an individual. ( By the way, the secret's out: the answers are only yours if you learned them on your own.)

We also spoke ( also topically ) about techniques of meditation.

Today we will combine the two lessons whose combined power will give us more personal power than ever before.

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